Telling your partner your sexual health history and asking them theirs can be scary, awkward, or uncomfortable. But it doesn’t have to be! With the right plan, this conversation can to a deeper relationship with your partner.
First, talk sooner rather than later. Waiting until intimacy begins has a greater potential for damaging the relationship instead of discussing the matter upfront. Don’t hesitate, waiting for the “right” moment–plan for the right moment! Let your partner know that you’d like to talk about each of your sexual health histories.
Next, know what will make you feel comfortable and confident about entering an intimate relationship. Some people are trusting in taking their partners at their word. But if you’re uneasy, request documentation from your partner’s most recent STD exam.
Finally, do your best to remove emotions from the conversation. Keep it to the facts about each of your sexual health histories and present circumstances. It’s also a good idea to ask if your partner is presently seeing anyone else. When in the context of potential STD exposure, your partner is free to share.
For more advice on talking with your partner about sexual health history, watch the video below:
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